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Historic Inns & Victorian B&Bs

Step back in time at the Jersey Shore's charming Victorian bed and breakfasts. Gourmet breakfasts, antique-filled rooms, and personalized hospitality.

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Featured Victorian B&Bs

The Queen Victoria

$$$

Cape May

Best B&B in Cape May every year since 2007. 31 rooms across three 1880s homes.

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Angel of the Sea

$$$

Cape May

Most romantic B&B. Ocean-view balconies, gourmet breakfast, wine hour.

ocean viewswine hourafternoon teahalf-block to beach

Congress Hall

$$$$

Cape May

America's first seaside resort (1816). Historic luxury with modern amenities.

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The Virginia Hotel

$$$$

Cape May

Boutique luxury with award-winning Ebbitt Room restaurant.

fine diningbikesCongress Hall pool access

Mainstay Inn

$$$

Cape May

Most photographed spot in town. 1872 building with exceptional antiques.

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The Breakers

$$$

Spring Lake

Elegant oceanfront B&B in Spring Lake's upscale setting.

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Best Towns for Historic Stays

What to Expect at a B&B

Gourmet Breakfast

Multi-course breakfast included. Often the highlight of the stay.

Afternoon Tea/Wine

Many B&Bs serve afternoon refreshments, from tea to wine and cheese.

Antique Furnishings

Expect period furniture, four-poster beds, and unique room decor.

Personal Service

Innkeepers offer recommendations, help with reservations, local tips.

Quiet Atmosphere

Most have quiet hours and peaceful common areas. Not party spots.

Adults-Focused

Many are adults-only or restrict young children. Best for couples.

Room Types Explained

Standard Room

$150-225
  • Queen bed
  • Private or shared bath
  • Smaller size
  • Interior view

Best for: Budget-conscious couples who mainly sleep there

Deluxe Room

$225-325
  • King bed
  • Private bath
  • More space
  • Better view

Best for: Most couples - good value/comfort balance

Suite

$325-450+
  • King bed
  • Sitting area
  • Premium bath
  • Best views

Best for: Special occasions, anniversaries, honeymoons

🏛️ B&B Etiquette Guide

✓ Do:

Arrive during check-in hours (typically 2-6pm)

✗ Don't:

Show up unannounced before noon or after 10pm

Why: Innkeepers live on-site and may be preparing rooms or sleeping.

✓ Do:

Communicate dietary restrictions in advance

✗ Don't:

Wait until breakfast to mention allergies

Why: B&B breakfasts are often prepared the night before.

✓ Do:

Respect quiet hours (usually 10pm-8am)

✗ Don't:

Party in common areas or play loud music

Why: B&Bs are shared spaces - walls are thin in Victorian homes.

✓ Do:

Remove shoes in common areas if asked

✗ Don't:

Track sand/dirt onto antique rugs

Why: Many furnishings are irreplaceable antiques.

✓ Do:

Make reservations for dinner in advance

✗ Don't:

Expect innkeepers to get you into booked restaurants

Why: Popular restaurants fill weeks ahead, especially in Cape May.

✓ Do:

Tip housekeeping ($5-10/night)

✗ Don't:

Assume tips are included in the rate

Why: Staff turnover is high - tips go directly to cleaners.

How to Choose the Right B&B

How private do you want to be?

Very private

Private bath, separate entrance room

Sociable

Shared breakfast seating, common areas

Middle ground

Private bath, communal afternoon tea

What's your breakfast style?

Early riser

B&Bs with early breakfast or flexible times

Late sleeper

Places with continental option or extended hours

Foodie

Multi-course gourmet breakfast specialists

Beach proximity vs. charm?

Beach access

Spring Lake oceanfront, Angel of the Sea

Victorian immersion

Historic district B&Bs, walking distance

Both

Cape May beachblock locations

💰 Budget Planning

Room Rate$175-400/night

Summer weekends are peak pricing

Off-Season Rate$125-275/night

Oct-April (except holidays)

BreakfastIncluded

Gourmet breakfast worth $20-30 value

Afternoon Tea/WineIncluded

Daily social hour at most B&Bs

Dinner (Cape May)$50-100/person

Fine dining is the norm

Trolley Tours$15-25

Historic tours, ghost tours

Tips$5-15/night

Housekeeping, any special services

First-Time B&B Guest Tips

✓ Book Direct for Perks

Call the B&B directly. You'll often get better rooms, flexibility, and local tips vs. booking sites.

✓ Read the House Rules

Every B&B has quirks - some don't allow food in rooms, some have specific parking instructions.

✓ Arrive During Social Hour

Time your arrival for afternoon tea/wine. It's when you'll meet other guests and get insider tips.

✓ Don't Skip Breakfast

B&B breakfasts are often the highlight. Wake up for them - you're paying for it either way.

✓ Use the Innkeeper

They know every restaurant, shop, and hidden gem. Ask for recommendations - it's their expertise.

✓ Check Bathroom Situation

Some budget rooms have shared baths. Confirm private vs. shared when booking if it matters to you.

🧳 What to Pack for a B&B Stay

Comfortable walking shoes

Victorian districts are for strolling

Dressy-casual dinner outfit

Fine dining is part of the experience

Light layers

Victorian homes can run hot or cool

Book or journal

Common areas invite relaxation

Cash for tips

Housekeeping, restaurant tips

Wine opener (check rules)

Some B&Bs allow BYOB in rooms

White noise app

Old houses can creak at night

Phone chargers with extension

Outlets may not be near bed

Best Times to Visit

Victorian Week

October

Cape May

Ten days of Victorian-themed events, tours, and festivities.

Cape May Christmas

December

Cape May

Candlelight house tours, decorated B&Bs, holiday events.

Valentine's Packages

February

Various

Romantic packages with champagne, dinners, and special touches.

Spring Tulip Festival

April

Cape May

Thousands of tulips bloom throughout the Victorian district.

Cape May: B&B Capital of the Shore

Cape May has more Victorian B&Bs than any other Jersey Shore town. The entire city is a National Historic Landmark with over 600 preserved Victorian buildings. From intimate guesthouses to grand historic hotels, Cape May offers the most authentic Victorian shore experience.

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