Jersey Shore Bachelorette Parties
Plan the perfect beach bachelorette. From rooftop bars in Asbury to casino pools in AC to wine tours in Cape May.
Boozy Brunches
Bottomless mimosas at shore spots
Nightlife
AC clubs and Asbury rooftops
Beach Days
Perfect backdrop for photos
Best Destinations
Asbury Park
Hip & LGBTQ-friendly
Rooftop bars, boutique hotels, beach clubs
Best for: Groups wanting nightlife + beach vibes
Atlantic City
Vegas on the beach
Casinos, pools, clubs, shows
Best for: Groups wanting Vegas-style party
Long Branch
Upscale resort
Pier Village, Ocean Place Resort
Best for: Groups wanting relaxation + elegance
Cape May
Victorian elegance
Wine tours, fine dining, B&Bs
Best for: Sophisticated celebrations
Long Beach Island
Beach house party
Large rentals, laid-back vibes
Best for: Groups wanting private house party
Wildwood
Fun & affordable
Free beaches, boardwalk, nightlife
Best for: Budget-friendly groups
Bachelorette Activities
Boozy Brunch
Bottomless mimosas and great food at shore restaurants.
Where: Asbury Park, Long Branch, Cape May
Spa Day
Group spa packages with massages, facials, and champagne.
Where: Ocean Place (Long Branch), Borgata (AC), Cape May spas
Wine Tour
Cape May Wine Trail with 6 wineries. Transport available.
Where: Cape May
Sunset Cruise
Private or group cruises with drinks and views.
Where: Cape May, Atlantic City, LBI
Pool Party
Dayclub scene at Atlantic City casino pools.
Where: Borgata, Hard Rock, Ocean Casino
Nightclub VIP
VIP tables and bottle service at AC clubs.
Where: Atlantic City
Planning Tips
Book a Beach House
For 8+ people, a beach house is often cheaper than hotel rooms and offers private space.
Consider Shoulder Season
May-June has great weather, lower prices, and easier reservations than July-August.
Make Dinner Reservations Early
Popular shore restaurants book up weeks in advance for summer weekends.
Arrange Transportation
Many towns are walkable, but Uber/Lyft availability varies. Consider party buses for bar hopping.
Check BYOB Options
Many shore restaurants are BYOB - bring champagne and save money.
Plan for Beach Time
Don't over-schedule. Leave time to actually enjoy the beach.
Weekend Budget Guide
What to expect per person for a 2-night bachelorette weekend:
| Expense | Budget | Mid-Range | Premium |
|---|---|---|---|
| Beach House (split 8 ways, 2 nights) | $100-150 | $150-250 | $250-400 |
| Hotel Room (2 nights, split 2 ways) | $150-200 | $250-350 | $400-600 |
| Meals & Drinks (2 days) | $100-150 | $200-300 | $400+ |
| Activities (spa, cruise, etc.) | $50-100 | $150-250 | $300+ |
| Transportation | $30-50 | $75-150 | $200+ |
| Nightlife/VIP | $50-100 | $100-200 | $300+ |
| TOTAL PER PERSON | $350-500 | $600-900 | $1,200+ |
Planning Timeline
Set budget, pick destination, book lodging (beach house or hotel)
Book major activities (spa, wine tour, sunset cruise)
Make dinner reservations, coordinate outfits/themes, finalize headcount
Confirm all reservations, collect money from attendees, plan transportation
Create itinerary, set up group chat, pack decorations/supplies
Confirm check-in time, stock groceries/drinks, charge devices
Common Bachelorette Mistakes
Over-scheduling every hour of the weekend
Exhausted bride, stressed bridesmaids, no time for spontaneous fun or actual relaxation.
✓ Plan 1-2 activities per day max. Leave time for beach, rest, and going-with-the-flow.
Not considering everyone's budget
Friends bow out or feel resentful. Awkward money conversations during the trip.
✓ Discuss budget upfront. Offer tiered options. Make some activities optional.
Booking peak summer weekend at the last minute
No availability, sky-high prices, cramped accommodations, no restaurant reservations.
✓ Book 2-3 months ahead for summer. Consider shoulder season (May/Sept) for better options.
Relying on Uber/Lyft in small shore towns
Stranded at 11 PM with 45-minute wait. Surge pricing. Missing reservations.
✓ Stay in walkable area (Asbury, AC) OR book a party bus/designated driver in advance.
Not making restaurant reservations for large groups
90-minute wait on Saturday night. Hangry bridesmaids. Ruined dinner plans.
✓ Call 2-4 weeks ahead for groups of 6+. Mention it's a bachelorette - many do something special.
Asbury Park: Top Bachelorette Pick
Asbury Park is our top choice for bachelorettes. The Asbury hotel has a rooftop bar perfect for sunset cocktails. The beach clubs serve drinks on the sand. The downtown has boutique shopping and excellent restaurants. Nightlife includes live music venues and LGBTQ-friendly bars. It's hip, fun, and photogenic.
Bachelorette FAQ
What are the best Jersey Shore towns for a bachelorette party?
Asbury Park is the top choice for its LGBTQ-friendly nightlife, rooftop bars, and boutique hotels. Atlantic City offers casinos, clubs, and pool parties. Long Branch has Pier Village with upscale dining. Cape May suits a more refined celebration with wine tours and fine dining.
Where should we stay for a bachelorette weekend?
Asbury Park: The Asbury hotel has a rooftop bar. Atlantic City: Borgata or Hard Rock for pool parties. Long Branch: Ocean Place Resort for spa weekends. For beach houses, try LBI or the Wildwoods for larger groups at lower prices.
What bachelorette activities are there at the Jersey Shore?
Popular activities include boozy brunches, spa days, sunset cruises, wine tastings on the Cape May Wine Trail, beach yoga, bar crawls, pool parties at AC casinos, and nightclub VIP experiences. Many venues offer party packages.
How far in advance should we book for a bachelorette weekend?
Book 2-3 months ahead for summer weekends. Atlantic City casino hotels have good last-minute availability. Beach house rentals for peak summer may need 4-6 months advance booking. Restaurant reservations should be made 2-4 weeks ahead.
How much does a Jersey Shore bachelorette weekend cost?
Budget $300-600/person for a weekend including lodging, food, and activities. Beach houses split 8+ ways: $100-200/person for lodging. Hotel rooms: $150-300/night. Add spa ($100-200), activities ($50-100), and meals ($100-200). BYOB restaurants save significantly on drinks.
Can we get bottle service or VIP tables at the shore?
Yes! Atlantic City clubs like Premier at Borgata, HQ2 at Ocean Casino, and Daer at Hard Rock offer VIP packages. Book through the club directly or a promoter. Expect $300-500+ for a basic table, more on weekends. Asbury Park bars are more casual - no bottle service needed.
What are the best boozy brunch spots for groups?
Asbury Park: The Asbury hotel rooftop, Porta, Toast. Long Branch: Avenue Le Club at Pier Village. Atlantic City: Martorano's, Gordon Ramsay Pub. Cape May: Tisha's, Mad Batter. Call ahead for large groups - most restaurants can accommodate 8-12 with notice.
Should we hire a party bus or transportation?
For bar crawls beyond walking distance, yes. Uber/Lyft availability varies at the shore - AC is reliable, other towns less so. Party buses run $500-800 for 4-6 hours. Alternatively, designate a driver or stay in walkable areas like downtown Asbury or Pier Village.
Are there bachelorette packages at shore hotels?
Several hotels offer packages: The Asbury has "Girls Night Out" with rooftop drink credits. Borgata offers spa and dining packages. Ocean Place has group spa rates. Congress Hall in Cape May has refined celebration packages. Ask when booking - many properties create custom packages.
What if some guests are under 21?
The shore is still fun! Daytime activities (beach, spa, wine trail tastings for 21+, shopping) work for all ages. Evening options include mini golf, boardwalk activities, and BYOB dinners. Atlantic City casinos allow 21+ for gaming but under-21 can walk through and dine.