Romantic Escape
A dreamy couples getaway at the shore
An intimate 3-day retreat designed for couples seeking romance, relaxation, and connection. Victorian B&Bs, sunset sails, wine tastings, and candlelit dinners await.
Perfect For
Estimated Cost
$800-1200 for couple
$400-600 per person
Trip Highlights
- ✓Stay in a Victorian B&B
- ✓Sunset sailing cruise
- ✓Wine tasting at Cape May wineries
- ✓Candlelit dinner by the ocean
- ✓Morning beach walks
- ✓Couples spa treatment
- ✓Stroll through gas-lit streets
Day-by-Day Itinerary
Arrival & Romance Begins
Theme: Victorian Charm
Cape May
🌅 Morning
Scenic drive to Cape May
💡 Take the slower route through beach towns for a relaxed start
☀️ Afternoon
Lunch in Cape May
The Blue Pig Tavern
💡 Sit on the porch of Congress Hall for old-school elegance
Check into your B&B
Cape May Victorian B&B
💡 Many B&Bs offer early check-in with notice
Wine tasting at Cape May Winery
Cape May Winery
Duration: 1.5 hours
💡 Try the Barrel Fermented Chardonnay. Buy a bottle for later!
Relax at B&B, get ready for evening
🌙 Evening
Sunset stroll on the promenade
Cape May Promenade
💡 Walk to Sunset Beach to watch the sun set over Delaware Bay
Romantic dinner
The Ebbitt Room
💡 One of Cape May's finest. Make reservations well in advance.
Evening walk through gas-lit streets
Cape May Victorian District
💡 The Victorian houses are beautifully lit at night
Day Tips
- • Request a room with a private porch if available
- • Cape May has excellent restaurants - book dinner reservations
Sea, Sun & Sails
Theme: Ocean Romance
Cape May
🌅 Morning
B&B breakfast
💡 Most Cape May B&Bs serve gourmet multi-course breakfasts
Morning beach walk
Cape May Beach
Duration: 1 hour
💡 Hunt for Cape May diamonds (quartz crystals) on Sunset Beach
Relax on the beach
Duration: 2 hours
💡 Rent a beach cabana for extra comfort
☀️ Afternoon
Lunch al fresco
Fins Bar & Grille or Lucky Bones
Couples spa treatment
Cape May Day Spa or Congress Hall Spa
Duration: 1.5 hours
💡 Book at least a week in advance for couples treatments
Return to B&B, freshen up
🌙 Evening
Sunset sailing cruise
Schooner American or Cape May Sailing
Duration: 2 hours
💡 BYOB on many sailings. Bring that wine from yesterday!
Dinner with ocean views
Peter Shields Inn
💡 Request oceanfront seating when booking
Nightcap at a wine bar
Cape May Wine Cellar
Day Tips
- • Sunset sail is the romantic highlight - don't miss it
- • Book spa treatments well in advance
🌧️ Rainy Day Plan
If rainy: Visit Emlen Physick Estate for Victorian tour, wine tasting at Willow Creek Winery, and dinner at Washington Inn
Farewell & Sweet Memories
Theme: Morning Magic
Cape May / Spring Lake
🌅 Morning
Early morning beach walk
Cape May Beach
💡 Watch the sunrise together - magical way to start the day
Final B&B breakfast
💡 Savor it - Cape May B&B breakfasts are special
Check out and explore Washington Street Mall
Cape May downtown
Duration: 1 hour
💡 Pick up a memento - jewelry, art, or wine
☀️ Afternoon
Drive to Spring Lake (optional)
Duration: 1.5 hours
💡 If time allows, detour through this elegant shore town
Brunch in Spring Lake
The Whispers Restaurant
💡 Lovely Victorian setting for a farewell brunch
Stroll the Spring Lake boardwalk
Duration: 30 min
💡 Non-commercial boardwalk with beautiful homes and lake views
Head home
💡 Take the scenic route along Ocean Avenue if you have time
Day Tips
- • Spring Lake is often called the Irish Riviera - very elegant
- • Leave by 3pm to avoid shore traffic
Where to Stay
Virginia Hotel
Cape May
Boutique hotel with Ebbitt Room restaurant, elegant and romantic
💡 Their restaurant is outstanding
Search Rentals in Cape May →Queen Victoria B&B
Cape May
Classic Victorian B&B with afternoon tea and gourmet breakfast
💡 Ask for a room with private porch
Search Rentals in Cape May →The Southern Mansion
Cape May
Stunning Italianate mansion, luxury experience
💡 Book the George Allen Suite for ultimate romance
Search Rentals in Cape May →Congress Hall
Cape May
Historic grand hotel with spa, restaurants, beach service
💡 The most iconic Cape May stay
Search Rentals in Cape May →Some links may earn us a commission. Learn more
Packing List
- Nice dinner outfits (2-3 evenings)
- Light layers for evening walks
- Comfortable walking shoes
- Beach attire
- Sunglasses and sunscreen
- Camera for scenic moments
- Wine opener (just in case)
- Book to read on the beach together
Pro Tips
- 💡Book B&B and dinner reservations 2-4 weeks ahead in summer
- 💡Cape May is beautiful year-round - off-season is quieter and more intimate
- 💡Request ocean view or porch rooms when booking B&B
- 💡The sunset sail is the romantic highlight - don't skip it
- 💡Spring Lake makes a perfect stop on the way home
- 💡Many restaurants are BYOB - bring wine from the wineries
- 💡Gas-lit streets are magical at night - plan an evening walk
Cost Breakdown
Accommodations
$200-350/night
Food
$150-200/day for 2
Activities
$150-250 total
Transportation
$30-50
May Not Be Ideal For
- • Families with young children
- • Budget travelers
- • Those seeking nightlife
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