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Valentine's Day in Cape May

America's oldest seaside resort transforms into a romantic wonderland. Victorian B&Bs, candlelit dinners, wine trails, and cozy fireplaces await.

#1Romantic Town
50+Victorian B&Bs
Feb 142026
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Valentines Day Weekend at a Glance

Fri-Sun

Feb 13-15, 2026

35-45Β°F

Average Temp

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While You're in Cape May

Make the most of your visit with these local highlights and essential info.

🎯 Don't Miss

  • Victorian District β€” Over 600 preserved Victorian buildings. Cape May MAC Trolley Tours depart from Washington Street Mallβ€”45-minute Historic District tours recently updated with Black community history.
  • Cape May Lighthouse β€” 157 feet tall with 199 spiral steps. $12 adults, $8 children. Breathtaking 360-degree views across Delaware, Wildwood, and the Atlantic. Special Full Moon Climbs and July 3 Fireworks Climb.
  • Sunset Beach Flag Ceremony β€” Nightly summer ceremony at Sunset Beach as the sun sets. Search for Cape May diamondsβ€”quartz crystals polished by waves.
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πŸš— Parking Tips

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Note:Metered street parking. Municipal lots available. Summer parking can be challenging.

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Why Cape May for Valentine's Day?

Cape May consistently ranks as one of America's most romantic destinations, and Valentine's Day showcases why. The town's 600+ Victorian buildings, many converted to intimate B&Bs, create the perfect backdrop for a couples retreat. In winter, you'll find the charm without the crowds.

The off-season atmosphere is uniquely romantic. Walk empty beaches at sunset, enjoy unhurried wine tastings, and have your pick of tables at award-winning restaurants. Many B&Bs offer special Valentine's packages with champagne, chocolates, and romantic dinners.

πŸ’• Sample Romantic Weekend

Friday Evening

Check into your B&B, enjoy afternoon tea or wine hour. Walk to Washington Street Mall, then romantic dinner at Washington Inn or Peter Shields.

Saturday

Gourmet B&B breakfast, morning trolley tour. Afternoon wine trail (Cape May Winery β†’ Willow Creek). Sunset at Cape May Lighthouse. Prix-fixe Valentine's dinner.

Sunday

Leisurely breakfast, beach walk to look for dolphins. Brunch at Blue Pig Tavern before heading home.

Romantic Restaurants

Reserve 2-3 weeks early for valentines day weekend. Many offer special prix-fixe menus.

Washington Inn

$$$$

American Fine Dining

1840s plantation home

Peter Shields Inn

$$$$

Coastal Fine Dining

Oceanfront views

The Ebbitt Room

$$$$

New American

Virginia Hotel

Tisha's Fine Dining

$$$

Continental

BYOB

The Blue Pig Tavern

$$$

American

Congress Hall, cozy

Lucky Bones

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American

Casual romantic

Cape May Wine Trail

Cape May has become a wine destination with several excellent wineries offering tastings year-round:

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Cape May Winery

Largest local winery, tastings daily

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Willow Creek Winery

Farm setting, special events

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Hawk Haven Vineyard

Intimate tastings

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Natali Vineyards

Award-winning wines

Pro tip: Most wineries are 10-15 minutes from downtown. Consider a wine tour service so neither of you has to drive.

Romantic B&Bs & Hotels

Cape May's accommodations offer the perfect romantic retreat. Many offer special packages.

Queen Victoria B&B

Iconic Victorian

Fireplaces, afternoon tea

Mainstay Inn

Elegant Italianate villa

Award-winning breakfasts

Carroll Villa Hotel

Historic boutique

Restaurant on-site

Virginia Hotel

Luxury boutique

The Ebbitt Room

Congress Hall

Grand beachfront

Full resort amenities

The Chalfonte

Historic charm

Southern hospitality

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Romantic Activities

Late afternoon
Lighthouse Sunset Tourβ€” Climb Cape May Lighthouse at sunset
Afternoon
Wine Trailβ€” Visit 2-3 wineries with tastings
Any time
Beach Walkβ€” Quiet winter beaches, look for dolphins
3-4 PM
Afternoon Teaβ€” Several B&Bs offer tea service
Daytime
Shoppingβ€” Washington Street Mall boutiques
Morning
Trolley Tourβ€” Historic district overview

valentines day Weekend Tips

Book Early

  • β€’ B&B rooms: 4-6 weeks ahead
  • β€’ Dinner reservations: 2-3 weeks ahead
  • β€’ Winery tours: 1 week ahead
  • β€’ Ask about Valentine's packages

What to Pack

  • β€’ Warm layers for beach walks
  • β€’ Nice outfit for fine dining
  • β€’ Comfortable walking shoes
  • β€’ Camera for sunset photos

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Your Victorian Romance Awaits πŸ’•

Cape May has been creating romantic memories for over 150 years. Make this Valentine's Day unforgettable.